After my divorce, there was a long streak when I was forever involved in triangles, and like the narrator in this song, I’d ruminate endlessly over what was so lacking in me. Finally (and it took me far too long), I came to two realizations. One, I wasn’t ordinary at all; and two, no matter what excuses I made, a man who needs two women isn’t man enough for one. Paula Cole:
I am so ordinary
